I
know you might think I were crazy if I told you that I believe in
animal communicators, but I ask you to continue to read with an open
mind. After my baby angel, Soji, left us, without even discussing it
with each other, my husband and I both knew what we were going to do
next - yes, consult with an animal communicator! Soji's last
veterinarian, Dr. Anne-Marie Gagnon, is a holistic vet who was able to
communicate with Soji on the surface level and send her energy to
help her during her sickness. When we spoke to her on the phone and
asked her if she knew anyone who could help us, she kindly
recommended us to someone she knew, Susan Hamlin.
The
funny thing is, we had actually always joked about communicating with
Soji through an animal communicator many years ago, back in NY. If any
of you have watched Animal Planet, you would know the famous show,
Pet Psychic. We were big fans of Sonya's, and it was she who
convinced us how one could actually communicate with these loving
creatures through the powers of mind - from the living to the passed!
It was really fascinating to watch how she was able to tell stories
that the human companions didn't tell her, or find out some
mysterious past of the animal companions for their caregivers. It
makes you realize that anything is possible!
Of
course, being a Buddhist, I already believed in spirit, but having
said that, when it came time to call this mysterious animal
communicator, I hesitated to do so for a week. I was admittedly a
little bit skeptical about how this woman was going to help us
overcome our grief, and I was also afraid to know what Soji would say
to us, since I was still holding a lot of guilt at the time. We
finally spoke to Susan about two and half weeks after Soji's passing.
She was very kind as she explained to us that it's quite common for a
lot of people to do this to seek relief and comfort. She went on to
tell us how she would proceed and that all we had to do was to send
her a photo of our loved one.
Since
we don't live in the States, Susan communicated with us through
Skype. For personal reasons, I won't be sharing everything we talked
about with her, but I will tell you that from the beginning of our
session, I knew it was real! Not only was Susan able to read Soji's
personality precisely, but the very first thing she said Soji wanted
to tell us was how much she wanted to thank us for the extra measures we took
in caring for her and that she was sorry for how much of a mess she made
during her last few weeks. I must say that even though we briefly
told Susan what Soji's illness was, we never told her (or Dr.
Gagnon) how much trouble Soji had going to her litter box, nor did we describe just how we cared for her. Throughout
her last few weeks, we constantly changed her bed sheets every few
hours throughout the day. The washer and dryer were running nearly
non-stop, but the work was worth it, because that was the best way
for us to keep Soji as comfortable as possible. There was no way that
Susan could've known this!
After
the session, I strangely felt a huge weight off my shoulders! We were
very content to know that Soji was in a good place and that she was
pain-free. We had a very nice, up-close, and personal conversation
with her for the very first time even though her body was no longer
with us. I never forgot the things she said that day and the promises
we made with her and we have no regrets. I believe it was one of the
most beautiful things that we've ever done!! So for those of you who
are convinced by my personal story, I sincerely hope this will offer
you another option to help you get through your own tough times.
*Here's more if you'd like to read about Sonya Fitzpatrick and watch her videos
*Here's more if you'd like to learn about or require Susan Hamlin's service
有趣的是，多年前早在紐約的時候，我們總是開玩笑的說有一天應該請一位動物溝通師來幫我們與Soji溝通。如果大家有看過《動物星球頻道》(Animal
Planet) 的"寵物媒靈"
(Pet
Psychic)，就應該對這位有名的節目主持人桑妮亞(Sonya)很熟悉。我和老公都是她的忠實觀眾，在節目中她以心電感應與動物溝通，並幫助許多飼主們解除許多他們之前不解的一些問題，或甚至幫助一些痛失寵物的飼主們經過通靈來療撫他們的傷痛，在國外很多名人也都請她幫忙。說起來很神奇，但節目裡總是充滿不同的驚喜，也証實了桑妮亞的超感天賦。因為看了這個節目，使我們深信與動物溝通不是不可能的！
當然除此之外，我本身就相信靈魂的存在，雖然如此，我對這件事還是猶豫了一個多星期。我有點懷疑這位動物溝通師是否真的也有像桑妮亞一樣的神奇天賦，也有點害怕Soji會對我們說些什麼，因為那時的我，內心還充滿了愧疚，終於我們在Soji離開兩個多星期後與蘇珊聯絡上。她人非常的可親，也很明瞭我們當時的心情，她向我們解釋，像我們這樣的情況而找她是常見的。她接著告訴我們，若要她與Soji溝通很簡單，我們只需要將Soji生前的一張照片寄給她就行了。
由於蘇珊在美國，所住的地方離我們也有些距離，她請我們使用Skype來與她交談。因為這涉及到個人的隱私，所以我不便把所有詳細的對話寫出來，但是我可以告訴大家，從開始的談話，我可以相信蘇珊的能力。她不但能準確的描述Soji的個性，並且一開始，她就說Soji想告訴我們她非常感謝我們在她離開的前幾星期特別為她做的所有事情，還有她對她生病時把家裡弄髒而感到很抱歉。我很驚訝蘇珊這樣對我們說，因為我們只有簡單的告訴她Soji有淋巴癌，但我們從來沒有告訴她或甚至獸醫很多詳細的情況，例如Soji在最後的幾個星期幾乎痛到都無法走去貓沙盒等等。那一段時間，我們每天都必需幫她換很多次的被單，也儘量陪在她身邊，雖然辛苦，但這樣為她付出是值得的，這些照顧她的種種細節，是蘇珊完全不知道的！
與蘇珊交談結束之後，我突然間感覺輕鬆許多，也因為知道Soji現在已自由與快樂，讓我感到非常的辛慰。我們沒有後悔做這件事，儘管她已不在我們的身邊，我們永遠會把這位美麗的小天使放在心裡，也不會忘了她對我們所說的話與我們給她的承諾。我衷誠的希望與大家分享我們的經驗，可以使大家對動物溝通師更加了解，也給予大家有更多的選擇來走出這段傷痛的時期。
*有興趣的朋友們可以參考桑妮亞的個人網站
有興趣以其它的方式來療傷，請閱讀從代養到領養1
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