27.6.14

Coping With the Loss of Your Pet 走出失去寵物的悲傷, 2






I know you might think I were crazy if I told you that I believe in animal communicators, but I ask you to continue to read with an open mind. After my baby angel, Soji, left us, without even discussing it with each other, my husband and I both knew what we were going to do next - yes, consult with an animal communicator! Soji's last veterinarian, Dr. Anne-Marie Gagnon, is a holistic vet who was able to communicate with Soji on the surface level and send her energy to help her during her sickness. When we spoke to her on the phone and asked her if she knew anyone who could help us, she kindly recommended us to someone she knew, Susan Hamlin. 
 

The funny thing is, we had actually always joked about communicating with Soji through an animal communicator many years ago, back in NY. If any of you have watched Animal Planet, you would know the famous show, Pet Psychic. We were big fans of Sonya's, and it was she who convinced us how one could actually communicate with these loving creatures through the powers of mind - from the living to the passed! It was really fascinating to watch how she was able to tell stories that the human companions didn't tell her, or find out some mysterious past of the animal companions for their caregivers. It makes you realize that anything is possible! 
 

Of course, being a Buddhist, I already believed in spirit, but having said that, when it came time to call this mysterious animal communicator, I hesitated to do so for a week. I was admittedly a little bit skeptical about how this woman was going to help us overcome our grief, and I was also afraid to know what Soji would say to us, since I was still holding a lot of guilt at the time. We finally spoke to Susan about two and half weeks after Soji's passing. She was very kind as she explained to us that it's quite common for a lot of people to do this to seek relief and comfort. She went on to tell us how she would proceed and that all we had to do was to send her a photo of our loved one. 
 

Since we don't live in the States, Susan communicated with us through Skype. For personal reasons, I won't be sharing everything we talked about with her, but I will tell you that from the beginning of our session, I knew it was real! Not only was Susan able to read Soji's personality precisely, but the very first thing she said Soji wanted to tell us was how much she wanted to thank us for the extra measures we took in caring for her and that she was sorry for how much of a mess she made during her last few weeks. I must say that even though we briefly told Susan what Soji's illness was, we never told her (or Dr. Gagnon) how much trouble Soji had going to her litter box, nor did we describe just how we cared for her. Throughout her last few weeks, we constantly changed her bed sheets every few hours throughout the day. The washer and dryer were running nearly non-stop, but the work was worth it, because that was the best way for us to keep Soji as comfortable as possible. There was no way that Susan could've known this! 
 

After the session, I strangely felt a huge weight off my shoulders! We were very content to know that Soji was in a good place and that she was pain-free. We had a very nice, up-close, and personal conversation with her for the very first time even though her body was no longer with us. I never forgot the things she said that day and the promises we made with her and we have no regrets. I believe it was one of the most beautiful things that we've ever done!! So for those of you who are convinced by my personal story, I sincerely hope this will offer you another option to help you get through your own tough times. 


*Here's more if you'd like to read about Sonya Fitzpatrick and watch her videos

*Here's more if you'd like to learn about or require Susan Hamlin's service

To find more ways to heal your pain, please read my other post, From Fostering to Adopting.


  






不知道大家是否相信這世上有人擁有超能力能與動物溝通?我們的寶貝天使Soji離開後,我和老公完全沒有討論情況之下,彼此有默契的知道下一步要做什麼 - 是的,我們已想好要與動物溝通師聯繫。Soji生前的獸醫Dr. Anne-Marie Gagnon是位很特別的獸醫,她大部分採用針灸治療、配合同種療法,她甚至還能夠傳送一些能量給動物們,幫助他們與病魔搏鬥。當我們通知她Soji已離開的事,並詢問她是否可以給我們一些建議,她很親切的介紹我們一位她自己熟識的動物溝通師。


有趣的是,多年前早在紐約的時候,我們總是開玩笑的說有一天應該請一位動物溝通師來幫我們與Soji溝通。如果大家有看過《動物星球頻道》(Animal Planet) "寵物媒靈" (Pet Psychic),就應該對這位有名的節目主持人桑妮亞(Sonya)很熟悉。我和老公都是她的忠實觀眾,在節目中她以心電感應與動物溝通,並幫助許多飼主們解除許多他們之前不解的一些問題,或甚至幫助一些痛失寵物的飼主們經過通靈來療撫他們的傷痛,在國外很多名人也都請她幫忙。說起來很神奇,但節目裡總是充滿不同的驚喜,也証實了桑妮亞的超感天賦。因為看了這個節目,使我們深信與動物溝通不是不可能的!


當然除此之外,我本身就相信靈魂的存在,雖然如此,我對這件事還是猶豫了一個多星期。我有點懷疑這位動物溝通師是否真的也有像桑妮亞一樣的神奇天賦,也有點害怕Soji會對我們說些什麼,因為那時的我,內心還充滿了愧疚終於我們在Soji離開兩個多星期後與蘇珊聯絡上。她人非常的可親,也很明瞭我們當時的心情,她向我們解釋,像我們這樣的情況而找她是常見的她接著告訴我們,若要她與Soji溝通很簡單,我們只需要將Soji生前的一張照片寄給她就行了。


由於蘇珊在美國,所住的地方離我們也有些距離,她請我們使用Skype來與她交談。因為這涉及到個人的隱私,所以我不便把所有詳細的對話寫出來,但是我可以告訴大家,從開始的談話,我可以相信蘇珊的能力。她不但能準確的描述Soji的個性,並且一開始,她就說Soji想告訴我們她非常感謝我們在她離開的前幾星期特別為她做的所有事情,還有她對她生病時把家裡弄髒而感到很抱歉。我很驚訝蘇珊這樣對我們說,因為我們只有簡單的告訴她Soji有淋巴癌,但我們從來沒有告訴她或甚至獸醫很多詳細的情況,例如Soji在最後的幾個星期幾乎痛到都無法走去貓沙盒等等。那一段時間,我們每天都必需幫她換很多次的被單,也儘量陪在她身邊,雖然辛苦,但這樣為她付出是值得的,這些照顧她的種種細節,是蘇珊完全不知道的!


與蘇珊交談結束之後,我突然間感覺輕鬆許多,也因為知道Soji現在已自由與快樂,讓我感到非常的辛慰。我們沒有後悔做這件事,儘管她已不在我們的身邊,我們永遠會把這位美麗的小天使放在心裡,也不會忘了她對我們所說的話與我們給她的承諾。我衷誠的希望與大家分享我們的經驗,可以使大家對動物溝通師更加了解,也給予大家有更多的選擇來走出這段傷痛的時期。
  
 

*有興趣的朋友們可以參考桑妮亞的個人網站

*也可以參考我們的動物溝通師蘇珊的個人網站

有興趣以其它的方式來療傷,請閱讀從代養到領養1




 

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